Masturbation feels incredible and is completely healthy.
Most guys have a pretty good grasp on getting off… Or do they?
Since the dawn of time men have been jerking it, jacking it, and beating it without knowing about the other option available to them.
I’m talking about prostate massage, a relatively new form of pleasure that’s finally getting the recognition it deserves.
I wanted to do my part to advance the acceptance of this form of play, and so have put together a list of the 7 best prostate massagers for men.
I’ve also included a guide for the most common features and choices you’ll need to consider when buying one.
Why Do Guys Massage Their Prostate?
The prostate is a small gland located near the bladder.
It plays a major role in the male reproductive system and produces much of the fluid found in semen.
What a lot of guys don’t know is that the prostate feels incredible when stimulated.
The prostate has one of the highest concentrations of nerve endings in the male body.
Many sexual health specialists have begun to refer to it as ‘the male G-spot’ or P-spot.
You can’t touch the prostate itself, but you can apply pressure to it through your anus.
Of course that’s where the trouble begins.
So many guys I talk to have serious issues with anal play. Not on their partner of course, but on themselves.
There’s a widely held misconception among straight men that enjoying anal stimulation somehow makes you gay.
Thankfully there’s one really easy way to figure it out:
Are you sexually attracted to men?
You’re gay or bisexual.
It’s as easy as that.
Enjoying a prostate massage as a straight man just means you understand how good it can feel and don’t have any hangups.
What is a Prostate Massager?
A prostate massager has one purpose:
Reach the prostate and provide intense stimulation to it.
They come in many shapes, sizes, and materials but all share a few basic characteristics.
They’re insertable, and have some kind of curved or beaded component.
This makes it easier for them to apply gentle yet powerful pressure to your prostate without much effort on your part.
A lot of really good prostate massagers also stimulate the perineum.
Choosing the Best Option for You
How you like to be stimulated plays a big role in what prostate massager will work for you.
Even so, there are a few basic factors that you should always consider.
Prostate massagers are generally made from 3 different materials:
- Stainless Steel
Silicone massagers are the most common variety.
They’re soft, flexible, and easy to clean.
Silicone is easy to work with, keeping costs low and quality high.
The only downside is the same softness I mentioned before.
Some people prefer a more solid and unyielding sensation.
Glass massagers are very hard and come in a wide variety of colors and designs.
Many versions almost look like works of art.
A lot of people love that you can actually look through the toy while you play with it.
The only downsides are that cheaper versions are a bit delicate.
You definitely don’t want to end up with a broken glass toy inside you.
Stainless steel prostate massagers are much stronger and more durable than silicone or glass.
They provide a satisfyingly solid and filled feeling while you use them.
They’re also some of the most durable sex toys, lasting years with proper care.
You’ve got a wealth of choices available when it comes to features.
The first is going to come down to the shape and style.
A big chunk of the market is made up of products like butt plugs.
They have a narrow base that flares out into the toy itself.
This lets you put it firmly in place and apply pressure to the base while keeping it inside you.
Others work more like a narrow wand.
These let you pinpoint the location and amount of pressure you apply.
Then there’s manual and vibrating prostate massagers and even massagers that are remote controlled.
A lot of guys I’ve worked with in the past love the pulsing feeling of a strong vibrator on their prostate.
I recommend you mix and match some of your favorite features.
Sizing comes down entirely to what you’re comfortable with:
Never try to force anything into your anus!
You can do some pretty awful damage to yourself if you don’t spend the time to figure out what you can handle.
Always start off with either your or a partner’s finger, and lots of lube.
Once you’ve gotten used to the sensation you can begin increasing the size and length of your toys.
There are pretty good prostate massagers available at almost any price point.
They start around $15-$20 for an entry level product but can easily jump up to several hundred.
Start off with something simple to find out if you enjoy prostate orgasms.
There’s plenty of time to upgrade later.
Best Prostate Massagers for Men
1. Aneros Vice
Aneros is one of the most well respected names when it comes to prostate massagers.
The Vice is a large and in charge part of their vibrating line that’s made to perfectly nestle against your prostate.
Key features of the Vice include:
- Made from high quality silicone.
- Insertable length of 4 inches.
- Anatomically inspired design tingles and teases the prostate.
- Includes a 9 function bullet vibrator that fits right inside.
The Vice is a beautifully made product that provides fullness, vibration, and perineum stimulation all in one.
It’s a bit larger than many of Aneros’ other products and gives a really intense feeling of fullness.
Made from medical grade silicone, the Vice is fully waterproof and perfect for play on the go.
It’s on the pricey side, but you get a lot of value for your money.
Overall this is a great product that provides significant stimulation.
The only caveat I have is that if you’re just starting out with P-spot play this probably isn’t the toy to go with.
2. Magic Missile Vibrating Massager
The Magic Missile is an excellent beginner massager that provides you with ribbed pleasure and precisely targeted vibrations.
It’s made to bend and twist inside you in a teasing pattern as vibrations drive you to distraction.
Important features include:
- Tapered design for easy insertion.
- Internal vibrator allows for 7 different patterns and intensities of vibration.
- Crafted from satiny silicone for comfort.
- Curved to precisely target your P-spot.
The Magic Missile is an inexpensive toy that provides a lot of higher end features.
It gives you 4.5 inches of ribbed pleasure plus targeted vibrations.
The handle is generously sized, making it easy to control the pace of your play.
Its gentle curve makes it easy to find your prostate while the internal frame lets you apply significant pressure to it.
This is an excellent starter massager if you’re just starting out.
3. Desire Luxury Remote Massager
The Desire Luxury prostate massager combines an attractive design with a wide range of vibration intensities.
It uses an L shaped design with separate vibrators for your perineum and prostate.
Important features include:
- Made from soft silicone and totally waterproof.
- Includes a remote for hands free operation or play with a partner.
- 4 inches of insertable length.
- Advanced vibrators provide 8 different patterns of vibrations at 12 intensities.
This massager is honestly delightful to hold and play with.
It’s bulbous head provides moderate fullness while still being easy to insert.
The range of vibrations it can produce are some of the best I’ve ever seen.
You can go from a gentle tingle to an almost unbearably intense pulsing.
Its included remote opens up a whole new avenue of play.
You can insert and control it yourself while moving around or relaxing, changing the vibrations as your mood takes you.
You can also give the remote to a partner and place your fate entirely in their hands.
It uses a USB rechargeable battery that provides a full hour of play on 2 hours of charging.
All in all a well made product that provides serious fun.
4. Lelo Hugo SenseMotion
The Lelo Hugo is a new take on the remote controlled massager that adds a pretty fascinating twist.
It has all the standard features we expect from a high end prostate massager with one extra, a motion sensitive remote.
Important features include:
- 5.5 inches of insertable length.
- Dual vibrating motors for prostate and perineum stimulation.
- USB chargeable.
- Fully waterproof silicone design.
- Motion sensitive remote control.
Let’s get the nuts and bolts out of the way first:
The Lelo Hugo is a large massager that combines penetrative pleasures with a range of vibrations.
It uses an L-shaped design and can be worn both prone or while walking around.
The vibrator itself is very high quality and provides a significant amount of pleasure but it's the included remote that really makes it stand out.
The Lelo Hugo has what they call a SenseMotion remote.
You can turn it on and off or trigger programmed patterns with the buttons but that just scratches the surface of what it can do.
By moving the remote in your hand you can adjust the intensity, pattern, and frequency of vibrations on the fly.
This lets you endlessly customize the sensations you receive and puts the Lelo Hugo a step ahead of its competition.
5. Njoy Pure Fun
If a plump plug is more your speed the Njoy Pure Fun gives a great sense of fullness.
It’s designed to provide intense prostate stimulation plus the possibility for temperature play.
Key features include:
- Made from smooth and durable stainless steel in a double bulb design.
- Curved handle protrudes from your anus for twisting fun and easy removal.
- 3.5 inches of insertable inch at a weighty 10.5 ounces.
The Pure Fun is a great little toy that is easy to prep and insert.
It sits somewhere in the middle as far as size goes but its stainless steel construction automatically makes it feel more permanent and unyielding.
Just looking at it reveals its high level of quality, with a mirror shine reflecting your nervousness and excitement back at you.
It’s one of the heavier toys on this list, coming in at over 10.5 ounces, and has a curved handle that makes it easy to manipulate.
The stainless steel warms up quickly from room temperature but can also be warmed or chilled for thrilling temperature play.
6. Njoy Fun Wand
The Fun Wand is another toy from Njoy that is gives you multiple play options.
It has a double ended design and can be used equally well on men or women.
Important features of the Fun Wand include:
- Made from shining stainless steel.
- Uses graduated ball design to slowly introduce more stimulation.
- Can be used for prostate massage or traditional anal play.
- 8 inches of insertable length for wide ranging pleasure.
The Fun Wand is very versatile for anal play.
On one end is a single rounded ball that curves delicately to provide prostate stimulation.
It slips in easily when fully lubricated and is more than capable of bringing you to a moaning P-spot orgasm.
The other end has 3 different balls of increasing size.
It can be used to tease a partner with anal insertion or to add more intensity to a prostate massage.
It’s an extremely well made product that provides all kinds of anal focused play possibilities.
7. Lovehoney Booty Buddy
If you’ve been thinking about trying anal or prostate play but don’t want to spend much the Booty Buddy is a great option.
It’s a fairly basic silicone butt plug that incorporates a nice curve perfect for prostate massage.
Key features include:
- Flared t-bar base is contoured for perineum stimulation.
- Suitable for extended wear.
- 4 inches of insertable length.
- Made from soft silicone for easy use and cleanup.
The Booty Buddy lacks the bells and whistles of some other prostate massagers but it gets the job done.
Its curving shape gives it just the right angle to reach and tease your prostate.
Once you’ve properly lubed up it slips right in and stays in place securely.
You can manipulate the base to apply more pressure to your prostate or play around with inserting and removing it.
Its basic design works just as well on men or women, making it a great piece for couples.
Best of all, you can get the Booty Buddy for well under $20.
At such a bargain price it’s a great toy to buy for first timers or those hesitant about prostate play.
The Best of the Best
Prostate massage is one of the best ways to spice up your sex life or enhance your masturbation sessions.
For most guys the value of a prostate massager to their play is almost incalculable.
Any of the massagers on this list provide you with significant fun, but a few stand above the rest of the pack.
For an entry level massager I highly recommend the Magic Missile.
It lets you experience both manual stimulation and vibrations to find out what you like about prostate massage.
It’s also pretty affordable without making a big sacrifice in quality.
If you like to have total control over the stimulation of your prostate a manual massager is key.
I went with the Njoy Fun Wand as the best manual massager.
Its stainless steel construction makes it almost indestructible while its double ended design gives you tons of options for play.
In the end, there could only be one winner:
The Lelo Hugo with SenseMotion remote was undeniably the best pick overall.
It’s extremely well made, provides a massive range of vibration patterns and intensities, and allows for hands free use.
The SenseMotion remote was what really pushed it over the top.
The ability to adjust the speed and power of your play with just a motion is honestly incredible to experience.